The way of women

During my life I have had much opportunity to observe and interact with others both personally and in my counseling, mediating, facilitating, massaging, designing and mentoring work. 

Today I’m going to talk about women. 

What I have noticed is how much women do not support other women. How often they invalidate, demean, shame and undermine through competition and jealousy for men, career and beauty. 

Women, let’s stop this now. It’s toxic and divisive. Stop letting other women down. 

Time to look within for that which you are seeking externally- give your self the validation you seek, love your body, be authentically you and not a ‘clone’ of someone else you see in a magazine or you tube channel. There is not another single person like you. You are unique, your gifts are necessary and you are part of the web of life. You are of value because of this. 

Bringing others down to make your self feel better is never a solution for anyone. Stop trying to compete with men as well. 

You are an incredible being that can create and birth a whole new life into this planet. That’s how extra ordinary you are. Regardless of your choices, sexual preferences or anything else that is essentially you. You are amazing as the authentic you. So go digging for this. Forget everyone else and be you. Do the work you need to do to clear the hurt, the shame and the trauma from your own life. Don’t cause more of this for others. 

Be brave and face you and love you as a drop of the divine. 

The universe always loves you and love is always present. 

If you have fallen out of love with you, what can you do and who can you be today to tap into that love again?